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Packing

What is packing?

'Packing' refers to using an object to create a bulge in your underwear. 

This practice is primarily adopted by trans guys and gender diverse people to affirm their gender identity, alleviate dysphoria, or simply feel more comfortable in their bodies. However, you don't need to be trans or gender diverse to pack. 

People pack for various reasons, including:

  • Gender affirmation and euphoria: For many, packing helps alleviate gender dysphoria and creates a sense of comfort and alignment with their gender identity.
  • Safety: Creating a masculine silhouette can help trans and gender diverse people feel safer in public spaces, which can reduce the risk of harassment or discrimination.
  • Aesthetics: Some people might simply prefer the aesthetic of having a bulge.
  • Performance: It's also a common practice for drag kings to enhance their masculine presentation, and for individuals involved in cosplay and theatre to accurately portray specific characters.

Packing is a personal decision, and it's not something that every trans and gender diverse person chooses to do. It's totally up to you to decide whether it's something that makes you feel good. You might choose to pack only on some days, for certain occasions, or not at all - and all are valid!

What is a packer?

A 'packer' is a object made specifically to be inserted in your underwear to create a bulge. Packers can look like realistic or semi-realistic penises, often made from silicone or TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), or can be non-realistic, like our SDH Budgie Packer, which is a fabric insert option.

Choosing a packer

Choosing a packer can be really exciting. There's lots of different options, so here are some things you can consider to help you decide:

Size 

This is probably the most important thing to consider when choosing a packer. You may want to consider your height and body frame (e.g. if you are short and have a small frame, you might want a smaller packer for a more realistic look. We find people often over-estimate, but the average flaccid penis length is actually 3.5 inches. Check out our Blog Post about packing for more info on sizing.

Colour 

For realistic packers, we stock a range of different skin tones. For foam packers (SDH Budgie Packer), we stock black, white and tan.

Cut or uncut 

Some packer brands offer cut and uncut options. This means circumcised and uncircumcised. Trans-owned brand Banana Prosthetics which we stock at Sock Drawer Heroes, offer both cut and uncut options.

Material 

Our packers come in 100% pure medical grade silicone, TPE (themoplastic elastomer) blend, and farbric. Silicone packers are the best quality, longest-lasting and most hygienic material because silicone is non-porous. TPE still feels realistic but is a cheaper material so is a great first packer. Our foam SDH Budgie Packer is a great light-weight and low budget option.

Use  

You may want to think about when you'll be using your packer. Our foam insert SDH Budgie Packer is great for packing while exercising or swimming. At other times, you might want something more realistic in weight and feel. Lots of people have different packers for different occasions.

Cost 

Finally, budget. We have packers to suit all budgets from our SDH Budgie Packer to realistic long-lasting silicone packers such as the Banana Prosthetics and several mid-budget packers in between.

Packing underwear, straps and pouches

Packing underwear are specially designed undergarments that provide a secure and comfortable way to hold a prosthetic packer, which is a soft, penis-shaped prosthetic used to create a bulge in the crotch area. Some packing underwear is also designed to accommodate Stand-To-Pee (STP) devices, which allow individuals to urinate while standing. These underwear often feature internal pouches or unique designs to keep the packer in place, preventing movement or discomfort throughout the day.

When choosing, consider supporting trans-owned businesses like the Australian trans-owned brand Dys4ick, which offers excellent packing underwear, and the Canadian trans-owned brand Banana Prosthetics, which makes both jockstrap-style and pouch-style packing underwear for secure and comfortable packing. We also stock a range of packing underwear and packing straps by SpareParts, an American brand, which is ally-owned. 

Another reliable option is the Aslan jock packer strap – a very secure and minimalist choice that can be worn on it’s own or under your regular underwear. This strap does include leather, so probably not one for the vegans in the room. 

Finally, Get Your Joey, the awesome trans-owned company based in Canada, has come up with an excellent solution: a packing pouch to transform any underwear into packing underwear! The pouch, containing your packer, simply pins to any underwear you choose, and even swimming trunks. Get Your Joey pouches are available in a variety of colours, patterns, sizes, and styles.

Check out our Packing Underwear and Pouches for more options.

Please note that not every packer and STP will work with every packing underwear or strap option. Sock Drawer Heroes stocks a wide range of the best packing underwear options so we've created the compatibility chart below as a guide to help you find the best fit. You can also contact us if you have any questions.

Keeping your packer clean

Keep your packer clean and hygienic by washing with warm water and anti-bacterial hand soap or anti-bacterial packer and toy cleaner. If your packer is silicone, do not store next to other silicone packers or toys as this will damage them. 

For silicone and TPE packers, you can lightly dust your packer with a renewing powder to keep moisture out while storing it.

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